I do NOT use my cell phone all that often. Apparently, I'm told "that's weird". I was also told that it is EVEN WEIRDER that we have a home telephone and that we do not access the internet from our cell phones. (Whatever.) When I made my (latest) cell phone purchase, I stated that I wanted it for an alarm clock, an occasional telephone call and a few text messages from time to time. In our house, we live the simple life.
This morning, while nursing Silas and simultaneously reading library books to Sydney, I heard my cell phone chime that I had a message. After that book was done, I got up and checked my phone, discovering that I had 3 new text messages.
2 messages from my best friend, Kerri - sent around 5am and again around 6am. Then, one from high school friend Jen.
"H*ly $hit!" I exclaimed as I read Kerri's messages. I felt as if I couldn't scroll the arrow down the tiny screen fast enough to see what was going on... She woke around midnight with severe bleeding and landed herself in the hospital; that she was suffering from placental abruption; that her bleeding was now more stable and the baby appears to be fine; that she was going to have an emergency c-section... that TODAY is going to be Baby Day!
A little flustered, I called Mike at work and apologized: Honey, I might have accidently taught Sydney a new word today so, if he proudly announces "H*ly $hit", I am sorry.
I later got a message indicating that Baby Hank was born a little after 7am, but Kerri hadn't seen/held him yet.
Later, I got a picture and learned that Kerri STILL hadn't seen or held him yet.
Pathetically, I forwarded Kerri's text/photo to my brother and asked him to email it to me so that I could SEE the picture of Hank. Thankfully, he complied.
I kept wondering WHY hasn't Kerri seen her baby?
I kept checking Facebook - stalking her family members - hoping for a status update, but all day long - there were none.
FINALLY, Kerri called me and I was SO RELIEVED to hear her voice! (I had been anxious all day - wondering what was going on and feeling so helpless so far away.) I believe Hank was born at 36.5 weeks gestation. Kerri was currently on bedrest - stuck in a prone position because of her spinal during c-section. The baby was on oxygen for his immature lungs and under heat lamps in a different area of the hospital. THAT is why Kerri hadn't yet met Hank.
She sounded SO disappointed. Being a mother myself, I can't imagine going for HOURS without meeting my new son. How heart-breaking for Kerri!
Kerri said that they were monitoring Hank closely and hoped that he would be breathing better by this evening or else he MAY have to go to a different hospital.
I laughed when Kerri couldn't answer the question of "What's Hank's middle name?" (She said they hadn't agreed on one yet - being that they still had time before he was due.)
This evening, I got an update call from a high school friend (Jenny) who reported that when she was at the hospital visiting, Kerri was FINALLY wheeled in to meet Hank. YAY! That's some of the best news I've heard all day! (Jen also emailed me a couple of pictures of the little man.)
Now, I am SUPER EXCITED to see Kerri and meet little Hank! (He sure looks cute!!!)
Congratulations Kerri and Greg! He's adorable!!! And I can't wait to meet him!
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My twin brother is ALSO a resident of the very same hospital tonight. Mike had surgery at 5pm on a broken collarbone. (He was in a motorcycle accident over the weekend, requiring scheduled surgery today.) His wife, Karin, reported (around 8pm) that he was still in recovery, but surgery had gone well. He's got a plate and a whole mess of screws holding himself together. The doctor assured her that surgery was the best option as his break would NOT have healed well on its own, which was discovered once they got inside. I guess it was a pretty good (bad) break.
We're hoping for a speedy recovery!